When It’s Better Not To Know What You Don’t Know

There are things I don’t know (I realize that’s a lot to spring on you right out of the gate and without any warning, but please save your shocked gasps and incredulous whispers for the comments section, thank you). Within that group are things I know I don’t know, like how string theory works and if it requires some kind of special quantum string or if any old string will do; and things I don’t know I don’t know … for instance, the amount of time one remains in “stealth mode” after taking one of the invisibility pills recently developed by a shadowy government agency. In order to know I don’t know that, I’d have to know if such a pill exists, and I don’t. So I can’t know what I don’t know because I’d have to know to know.

When I know I don’t know something, I can do some research and information gathering and in doing so, re-categorize the thing in question to the long list of things I know I know. Or, if the thing in question is one of which I purposely and happily remain ignorant, I can continue down that road. The bottom line being that the majority of the time, it’s my choice to gain knowledge or maintain ignorance.

It’s the things I don’t know I don’t know that are tricky. When it’s something I know I don’t know and have no interest in knowing, all I have to do is avoid situations that could result in the acquisition of unwanted information. But how does one steer clear of something they’re unaware of? I have no idea where to stay away from to avoid finding out about something I don’t know exists.

The exception, of course, is the internet. Truly the Jekyll and Hyde of modern innovation, the internet is an amazing tool for communicating, socializing, organizing, educating, creating and a bunch of other words that end in ing. But it’s also a sociopathic predator, biding its time and waiting for the perfect opportunity to throw open the curtain on websites featuring the most twisted stories, gruesome images and bat-shit crazy rants that you didn’t even know you were happy not to know until a minor misspelling of a URL opened a portal to a world you can now never unsee.

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Wheee! I can practically feel the wind in my hair!

Of course, some say no one ever ends up in the 9th Circle of Internet Hell accidentally. Believing instead that claims of such webernet wild rides are manufactured in an effort to hide the sick shit we look at when we’re alone. And I think that’s more true today than it was in the mid-90s when we all fired up our 14.4 modems (28.8 if you were fancy) and ran out to play in traffic on the information super highway … which isn’t as dangerous as it sounds considering that while a vehicle’s capability for speed on real highways is measured in horse power, the acceleration potential on dial-up modems is represented using sloth power.

We didn’t know what we were doing or where we were going and consequently found ourselves in unintended place. When my parents first got online, my mother wanted to know if I could fix her PC to prevent those accidents because, as she put it, “I don’t know what I typed or clicked on, but I wound up on some Pakistani pussy website.” An understandable dilemma for her, but a happy accident for me because it provided the opportunity to tell the story of that time my mom said “Pakistani pussy.”

But not all surprise website landings contain the number and type of factors necessary to generate such a perfect mom-ism. Most simply result in the the user recoiling from the screen, eyes averted and arms extended, clawing at the keyboard, desperate to hit anything that will close, or at least minimize, the page.

I wanted to send someone a cleverly-captioned picture of the feminine hygiene products that are now available in multi-colored wrapping. I couldn’t remember their name or brand, so I went to Google Images and entered the most likely search term: gay tampons. At this point, some readers are undoubtedly thinking, “There are tampons just for lesbians?? I didn’t know I didn’t know that.”

Of course, there are no such tampons. The feminine hygiene aisle at your favorite drug store remains a melting pot of sexual orientations where all women are welcome. I used the search term “gay tampons” because similar to Rule 34 is the lesser-known and unnumbered rule which states, “If it exists, there’s a rainbow covered gay version of it.”

Don’t believe it? I just Googled five random things — gay books, gay socks, gay bike, gay underwear and gay popsicle, and among the results were these:

0072 gay searchSee? There’s another thing some of you probably didn’t know you didn’t know. My blog is both entertaining and educational!

A screen shot of some the images found during the tampon search is below. While the particular picture I was looking for is included in the results, the first image in the second row is something I didn’t know I didn’t know about, but now know I was happy not knowing.

0072 screenshotMy initial thought was that they were baby-bottle nipples, which begged the questions “why are there gay baby products?” and “why are gay baby products coming up in a tampon search?”

Seeking answers, I selected the nip-pic and chose to view the page on which it resides. That’s when I learned the truth. The terrible, terrible truth.

Rather than rainbow hued infant accessories dreamed up by an enterprising homosexual riding the wave of gay marriages and its anticipated, subsequent baby boom, I learned that the items pictured are actually called menstrual cups.

Panicky pounding on my keyboard was avoided when it became clear that, unlike the infamous Two Girls, One Cup (which I’ve never seen and never want to ) the “cup” part here doesn’t refer to a drinking cup. But panicky pounding was required when I searched for “how are menstrual cups used” and Google felt it necessary to show me pictures of “used menstrual cups.” Because sometimes Google is a total dick.

Naturally, I no longer felt safe looking into menstrual cups, their history or their usage. But since I’d clicked the original image from the tampon results page, I still had access to less nightmare inducing pictures. So based only on the images available, these seem to be the most important things one should know about them:

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Menstrual cups may cause drowsiness. Avoid driving or operating heavy machinery until you know how menstrual cups affect you.

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If you decide to cook while using this product, make sure your menstrual cup is wearing an adorably tiny apron.

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Menstrual cups come in a wide variety of flavors to suit every taste.



I take back what I originally said. It appears that menstrual cup manufacturers and retailers are indeed targeting the lesbian demographic.

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Menstrual cups are a nutritious, fat-free addition to any soup or stew.

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Menstrual cups are approved for use by anyone with one of these. Although where one might find a cat with a penchant for posing in front of mountain imagery is anyone’s guess ….


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  2. “…sometimes Google is a total dick” That’s so true!
    I was happy not knowing that an animal called the star headed mole existed (no! don’t google it!) or that a movie called the human centipede was ever made… :/



        1. Lady caves … hahaha! And I don’t know why I thought colored menstrual cups were funny. Aside from battery life and consistent power, one of the key factors in my decisions about buying adult toys is if there’s a color I like.

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          1. I bought a toy once that was crayon orange, just because I loved that there was an option besides pink/purple and the occasional teal blue.

            What is it with women and the Easter egg colored hoo-ha accessories?



    1. Would you like me to delete the burped comment? Or would you like to leave it there to demonstrate to all your fans who keep you on that pedestal, that you actually are fallible. Barely fallible, but still …..



  3. “as we know, there are known knowns; there are things we know we know. We also know there are known unknowns; that is to say we know there are some things we do not know. But there are also unknown unknowns – the ones we don’t know we don’t know. And if one looks throughout the history of our country and other free countries, it is the latter category that tend to be the difficult ones.”

    Donald Rumsfeld got ridiculed for that, but it’s not only true, it’s profound.

    Speaking as someone whose daily business is uncertainty and risk analysis …

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